Supporting Yourself Through Grief
Grieving is a deeply personal process, and it’s important to care for your physical and emotional well-being as you navigate this challenging time.
1. Acknowledge Your Feelings
- Grief can manifest in various ways, including fatigue, mood swings, or difficulty concentrating. All emotions, from sadness to relief, are valid.
- Allow yourself to feel and process your emotions without judgment.
2. Take Care of Your Physical Needs
- Prioritize basic self-care, including regular meals, adequate sleep, and physical activity.
- Establishing routines can provide a sense of stability and help you cope better.
3. Give Yourself Time
- There’s no standard timeline for grief. Be patient and take the time you need to heal.
- Avoid overcommitting and set boundaries to protect your energy and emotional well-being.
4. Seek Support
- Don’t hesitate to ask for or accept help with daily tasks such as cooking, cleaning, or childcare.
- Consider professional resources, such as grief counselors or support groups, if needed.
Helping Others Who Are Grieving
Supporting a grieving loved one can feel daunting, but small, thoughtful actions can make a big difference.
1. Stay Connected
- Regularly check in with them through calls, messages, or visits.
- Acknowledge their loss and offer your support, even if you’re unsure of the “right” words.
2. Lend a Hand
- Assist with practical tasks like grocery shopping, yard care, or meal preparation.
- Relieving some of their daily responsibilities allows them more time to focus on healing.
3. Share Memories
- Don’t shy away from talking about the person they’ve lost. Sharing stories can be a source of comfort and connection.
4. Remember Significant Dates
- Be mindful of anniversaries, birthdays, or holidays, which can be especially difficult.
- A thoughtful gesture or message during these times can show your continued support.
Some Online Resources
Crisis, Grief, and Healing
Webhealing.com, the first interactive grief website, provides discussion boards, articles, book suggestions, and advice for men and women navigating all aspects of grief. Founded by Tom Golden, LCSW, the site includes book excerpts and contact information to support healing after loss.
Grief and Loss
The AARP website features a dedicated Grief & Loss section with articles and information to help individuals process and cope with grief.
National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization
This website offers extensive resources for those facing life-limiting illnesses or injuries, as well as for their caregivers, providing guidance and support during challenging times.
The Compassionate Friends
This website offers extensive resources for those facing life-limiting illnesses or injuries, as well as for their caregivers, providing guidance and support during challenging times.